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      Just Venting...

      2 months ago

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      One of the reasons writing became such a hobby for me was that writing things down helped me find solutions where none existed prior. That's my purpose in doing this. I only have my phone with me, so my usual word file solution does not exist.


      Nearly four years ago, I was living comfortably in a very nice apartment that was affordable and easily maintained. I was a little lonely my partner, Patrick had moved to California to take care of his mother. I had contemplated going with him, but didn't want to quit a good job of 7 years. I still have the job, by the way.


      So not long after an acquaintance was laid off her job, lost her apartment and her car. She had two sweet girls and I reached out and let her move in. I did and did not regret it. I did not blame her for her ex who she depended on for daycare caused to have to move.


      I told her if she wanted a house she would need a better job because paying rent in a house was more than I could deal with. She moved into her mom's and I had to raise hell to get a key to my own storage.


      She feels that I betrayed her for considering a move to California and will not speak to me. I moved in with a friend who I gave worked with who was evicted but did not tell me until I moved in. At the tine i felt like splitting the bills would be gelpful to both if us. She quit working within 3 weeks and fully expected me to completely support until she got disability.


      Yesterday, I told her to pawn some stuff, get food stamps so I could pay my storage full rent and be able to have necessities. She checked herself into the hospital threatening suicide. She is angry because I told her that I was done and moving. I am literally sitting in a Motel 6 with the clothes on my back, no car and $300 in the bank.


      I will figure it out, but I will not pay her bills while she lays on her fat ass while she whines about how she will pay her bills next month, if I don't.


      One good turn deserves... What?


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          Lizzy
          2 months ago

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          I too have been in the situation where people expect me to carry them forever, am still in fact , and am figuring out how to get out of the situation.

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              Lizzy
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              I recall you writing about letting her move in and then you losing the apt. as you could not afford the raise in the rent. Of well, what ya going to do. There are takers and there are givers. Look on this as a learning experience.

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                  Lizzy
                  2 months ago

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                  Being nice doesn't pay. Sorry to hear of your situation. There is light at the end of the tunnel though. There always is.

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                      Melissa Nguyen Horton
                      2 months ago

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                      I keep tellng myself there is a reason for everything. When I figure it I will share. Just a tough couple of weeks. I do best on my own.

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